I’ll say things to her that MAKE SENSE to me. I’ll say things to her that I will make her think, ‘This guy is awesome, I want his babies. He buys me a lot of stuff and he really seems to CARE about me. He’s got SO MUCH going for him. He has a good job, a career path and I know he can support me… and the kids.’

If any of those above thoughts have run through your minds recently, you’re not in the right frame of mind. Remember what women are attracted to/value: she wants EMOTIONS. All the lines you say, all the body language you do (to a lesser extent, I believe body language is a huge part of this) will not work if you’re not aiming to affect the right things. All of those wont work if you’re not focusing on the right things.

Do you ever look at someone and he or she seems to be a people magnet? People, both men and women, seem to gravitate to him or her. He or she does not seem to do anything special, yet people flock to his or her side, hanging on to their every word. You feel like a wallflower as you quietly blend into the woodwork wondering, “What does he or she have that I don’t?” That answer is simple, he or she has been developing their charisma.
Charisma is a combination of many factors…

Going out on your first date? The most nerve-wrecking few moments of a new relationship are arguably the last few moments before your first date begins. When you barely know someone or even when you have known them quite some time, but now decide to take things ahead at a new level, then your first date can be very exciting, a little awkward with loads of stress and intimidating. But it doesn’t have to be. Remember, suspense and anticipation is of utmost importance in creating the romantic feeling. A date can never go wrong with delicious food, light music and wine, but a little creativity and imagination can make a difference. They can become an affair to remember. Check out these pointers for memories first dates: